FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Q. Is this company and service for real?

A. Meet a Wife has been in business for 3 successful years. But don't just take our word for it - if you have spoken to an AFA representative, and you still have questions or doubts, simply ask for a list of previous tour client referrals. We will be happy to place you in contact with prior tour clients and married couples who will take their personal time to inform a fellow participant of the opportunities that await you. AFA offices around the world collect 1000's of profiles on a weekly basis and electronically submit that profile information to our loveme.com web site. This allows us to place over 200 new, fresh, beautiful faces on our web site each week. Understandably, the most attractive and desirable women do not stay single long. Great selection, the most current profiles from our foreign offices, and the speed of the Internet insure you the greatest selection of the most current women who want to meet you.

Q. Why would I want to use your service?

A. Meet a Wife was designed for women who wish to explore all of their options when choosing a mate or close friend. Due to today's technology we are able to bring people from different cultures and backgrounds together on our service. By viewing each Women's photos, and reading their bio-data, you can decide whom you would like to correspond with. The women on our service have written us expressly for the chance to meet that someone special! We continuously contact and update our database of women in order to offer you the best possible chance for a successful relationship!

Q. Are the women on your service really interested in me,or just coming to America?

A.There are a variety of reasons as to why the women choose to join our service. It has been our experience that the primary objective of these women is to find a loyal, dependable, stable man with whom they can build a happy relationship. These women are now searching outside of their country for this because for whatever reason or reasons they have not yet been able to find that one special person. The Internet has also opened up a whole new world of opportunities to these women that their mothers never enjoyed. They are no longer confined to their own cities and towns when searching for a mate. They can now search the world over for the right person.

Q. Are the women only looking for rich men?

A. Due to the culture and harsh realities of everyday life, the expectations and wants of most foreign women are extremely practical and realistic. They view strong family and traditional values as being important factors when choosing a life mate. Of course, like women everywhere, they want to fall in love. The facts in reference to marriage are that women seek mature, older, healthy, intelligent, successful, stable men with the ability to protect and provide for the family, and in all circumstances each of us seek a comfortable and happy home life.

Q. Is there a charge for the women who participate on your service?

A. No. The service is free of charge for the women. By not charging them to be on our service we are able to bring you a greater number and cross-section of people from which to choose. For the most part however, the women on our service could easily afford to be there. We have people from all walks of life including doctors, teachers, scientists, business people, farmers, etc.

Q.What kind of a response will I receive?

A. That really depends on you. It is important that you read the bio-data information about the women you intend to correspond with. You should only respond to those whom you feel you will be compatible with. You should also review the Letter Writing Tips, and Some Good Advice. By following these guidelines you should receive a very favorable response.

Q. How important are looks?

A. Studies have shown that, on a short term basis, the more attractive singles have sex more often. We find that trust and stability are two of the most important factors, especially for the women on our service. If a relationship does develop and the Women moves to this country, she will want someone she can depend on. This is a major life move for her and at least at first, there will be no one in this country other than you that she can turn to for support and comfort. Therefore, while looks may play a minor role, stability, trust, and a warm relationship are much more important factors.

Q. Are the addresses I receive current?

A. We strive to continually update our data. Each week AFA places 200 new profiles on "This week's new profiles" pages, or 10,400 new profiles per year. We offer the largest and most current database of profiles available in the world.
Our phone translation services & phone invitation services for socials allow us to be in constant contact with many of the women listed on the site.
When we are made aware of an address that is no longer valid we immediately remove it from our list. We instruct the men and women on our service to notify us of any address changes so that we may update our records.

Q. Is age an important factor?

A. Studies show men and women seek different goals in marital partners. Men seek youth and beauty. Women seek mature, older, healthy, intelligent, successful, stable men who will love and respect them, with the ability to protect and provide for the family. It is a fact of life. In many other cultures, such as the Russian culture, the women tend to have much more reasonable expectations. Thay have not yet been media programmed with a youth-oriented outlook on life. Many Russian men lack a certain maturity towards family and relationships. Most Russian women are extremely mature for their years.
New Wife attempts to be as diverse as possible. We have women on our database from all walks of life, different cultures, and varying age groups. Age does become a factor when choosing whom you will be most compatible with; however, do not let it become a barrier. For many women an older person represents stability, security and wisdom. In many cultures it is not uncommon to see major age differences between spouses.

Q.Should I send money to the women I correspond with to help with their expenses?

A. That is of course entirely up to you; however, we recommend that you do not. If the Women with whom you are corresponding is really interested in you then she will certainly respond without any financial incentive. If you really want to help with the cost of postage (most women and men on our service can easily afford this cost), we suggest that you send stamps as opposed to cash. We suggest you contact your local Post Office, or call us for more information on where to purchase the stamps.

Q. Who may use Meet a Wife's services?

A. Meet a Wife services are available to any person from any country. Although our home office is based in the USA, we have offices in all of the cities in which we conduct the Romance Tours. These offices offer support for the Tours and services for individual travelers. Tour packages are available without airfare for clients who originate from countries other that the U.S. The women on our service welcome the chance to meet men from all countries and walks of life.

Q. How do I reply to an advert that interests me?

A. The first thing to remember is that a response to an ad is a kind of advertisement in its own right. You need to say hi, and say that you saw the personal ad and thought it was interesting. A good idea is to say what you found interesting about it. Then you'd be wise to tell a little about yourself, to make you sound interesting enough to respond to. It's all a matter of putting your best foot forward.
The main thing is to remember not to be bashful; after all, you are responding to someone who has posted an ad. You therefore already know that this person is looking for email responses. You've certainly got nothing to be embarrassed about.

Q. Where should we meet on a first date?

A. Choose a safe, neutral spot for your date, just sitting down over coffee, or perhaps a light lunch at a casual restaurant. Emphasize that your first meeting will be for just that: meeting. Don't expect much more than that you'll sit down, get used to what the other person looks like, maybe have a bite to eat, then go home. Don't invite your date to your home or give out your address until you are absolutely sure they are genuine.